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YES or NO 1/8/2016
we do say YES when its come about sex life and normally word
NO in sex life was just a word thats mean nothing. As long
we live and ability to want means YES to our sex life
2 Comments, 20 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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How many times to say no? 1/1/2016
We have several members who continuously message their
interest in us. We do try to answer when someone takes the
time of message us but just how many times must one do that?
Is there a way to block a member when they become a nuisance?
4 Comments, 32 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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rejection on reason basis and strength of rejection 12/29/2015
some people just do not like to accept "i don't
like you" as an answer. what could be done in this case?
one of the good choices could be reasoning and explaining
the reason unless he/she is some kind of psycho, in which
case rejection should be strong and exempt from reasoning
2 Comments, 22 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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NO! 12/18/2015
Hey Look Ppl - No is NO and they usually [90%] mean just that
= NO. Once should be enough! To keep going is not only pointless,
but it is also very annoying and can lead only to trouble.
Listen and comply.
2 Comments, 19 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Sent mixed signal and chasing a lost of interest 11/24/2015
This is usually the reason why people pursue after someone.
Because they thought they may be interested in them or may
possibly give them a chance however when the individual
decides to say no then the aggressor typically a man ( Man
dominated cultures and in this chase America) thinks the
chase (woman/man) is just playing hard to get. It is the
flirts, misinterpreted body language that has ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
10 Votes
,4.38 Score
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How do you feel when you make a "date" for swinging and the other party does not show up? 11/8/2015
Whenever a party says they will meet for a sexual encounter
and they do not show up, what do you do?
6 Comments, 39 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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Traveled the Road Less Traveled 11/6/2015
Well Ladies and Gentlemen, I tried to travel down the road
less traveled and let me tell you... I learned some major
lessons.
As Oprah would say, what I know for sure is... what I like
and do not like and what I will and will not tolerate.
Let me explain I traveled down the road of younger guys and
what my experience was... the sex was great, but... and
we all know that the but ...
3 Comments, 74 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score
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Harsh Articulation 10/21/2015
In response to the email I received asking if I am interested
in you I will begin by stating that I read your profile thoroughly
in an effort to offer a no ‘bs’ and sincere answer. Typically
I would simply not take the time to read through a profile
without a profile picture attached. It shows a lack of confidence
and conviction. That, in and of itself, is less attractive
than the homeliest ...
5 Comments, 48 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Women don't have a patent on preference 10/18/2015
There's no doubt that the man to woman ratio on this
site is 500/20. That means a man has a 4% chance of actually
getting as much attention as a woman on here. This doesn't
include couple status. The women seem to be the smart ones
on here. The ones worth talking to are selective, as a man
should be. Some people just don't get it though. All
I can do is shake my head when I hear a woman talk ...
7 Comments, 70 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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How to say "no" 10/9/2015
My wife and I have been in this situation a few times and it
is always difficult. We were in a group situation, invited
to a party where there were several couples we knew and there
was one guy out of the bunch that my wife found very unattractive.
Later on in the evening there was group play going on and
we didn't end up playing at all because she was uncomfortable
with having to say no to ...
2 Comments, 60 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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How many 'No Thanks' can you take? 9/10/2015
Browsing down the categories to see where I should post
this and the SAYING 'NO THANKS' heading waved
and whistled at me..... Been married 35 years and it is a very strong marriage with
some severe tests along the way; great highs, painful lows
and buckets of tears and laughter along the way. We are very close and are best friends and the only secret
I have from my wife is my registration on ...
4 Comments, 101 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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why bother 9/7/2015
I read a few comments about women politely declining men's
advances here on Tranny Dating. After seeing some responses posted
on Facebook and other sites, I'm not surprised women
say nothing when approached - I've seen a LOT of nasty
responses guys have made to a simple, "no".
Things like, "fuck you, you fat cunt"; "you're
ugly anyway"; "I'm too good for you anyway";
"why the fuck are you on here ...
12 Comments, 126 Views,
14 Votes
,5.38 Score
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I agree with something SensuousShades said..... 8/25/2015
If I am approached in a polite respectful manner....I will
likely respond in the same way. You get what you give.
If you repeatedly email me "hey lets fuck",
"me in ur pussy" Or "come suck my cock"...
You will get nothing from me. Honestly, I don't "owe"
anyone anything if I don't even know them. That's
part of the territory in this community. If you don't
get a response......don't be ...
6 Comments, 62 Views,
19 Votes
,7.21 Score
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But they won't go away! 8/13/2015
I have met a few guys on this site. I usually message back
and forth, then either make a decision whether I want to
continue on or cut the ties. Behavior that is persistent,
constantly messaging me on my phone while I'm asleep
or at work...ugh! This is why when I get messages from guys
I know there is not a chance in hell we will have any chemistry,
I don't respond. I also have a message that ...
4 Comments, 71 Views,
17 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Taking "no" for an answer: A How-To Guide 8/13/2015
There are many, many people who breach our inboxes everyday,
sending all sorts of stuff.
First of all, I'll respond to a message with just "hi",
before responding to someone saying what they want to do
to me. It's called respect. If I turn you down-take
it the first time. Don't try to keep getting me to say
yes. I've made my mind up. It's not going to get
changed. So please, when I deny ...
1 Comments, 54 Views,
16 Votes
,5.48 Score
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30 pts post(ignore) 7/21/2015
How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real?
2 Comments, 11 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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I suppose 7/1/2015
The way respond to unwanted emails or IMs is based on the
request we've received. If the person messaging us
is polite we'll respond with "thank you for your
interested, but you aren't what we're looking
for."
Sometimes people say things that we can't actually
respond to so we leave those messages unanswered. Messages
like "Hi, I want to cum on your face" don't
get responses.
4 Comments, 68 Views,
17 Votes
,6.24 Score
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no thanks 5/23/2015
no thanks
0 Comments, 9 Views,
2 Votes
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How to let down some unwanted suitor. 5/13/2015
Ever have this happen to you.. You check out your e-mail
and find someone from the same sex hitting on you, or a sexually
unattractive member wanting you to have an encounter with
them. Face it the world is a crap-shoot. That's the
adventure called: romance. How to not to seem rude and decline
the offer. Just say in a polite manner, " I'm flattered that you have found me attractive, but I'm
not ...
10 Comments, 86 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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Harder for men or women? 4/30/2015
Who has the harder time saying no, men or women?
5 Comments, 46 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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It's funny. 4/24/2015
I always appreciate it when someone says no thank you politely.
I don't mind if they say "no interest".
At least you know, there is nothing there. I do find it interesting
that some people, just stop talking with you. You never
know if they got cut off, or are not interested. So please,
be blunt and say one thing or another, don't just go
silent.
5 Comments, 30 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Mean People Suck 4/4/2015
I've been here for while. I've been successful.
I had a lot of fun, and I've met some very special ladies.
I think about each one as a bottle of wine, the bottle that
I shared with them: Chardonnay, Riesling, a particularly
good vintage of South African Wine, and yes even a Merlot.
I've also met some real jerks, at least on line.
I have sent at least 200 emails to which I received no ...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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IM 2/14/2015
i am a charming guy trying to make conversation and too many
times i get someone just suddenly end an IM conversation.
isn't there a more polite way to say we should end this?
1 Comments, 18 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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To thank or not to thank 2/5/2015
I use to love going on the IM but I rarely do now because all
it turns into is a steady stream of vulgar come ons from every
jerk ever put on this site. I not only don't say no thanks
I ignore them altogether and let them wonder if their IM
is working.
6 Comments, 63 Views,
18 Votes
,5.85 Score
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I think this might mess our friendship up 1/15/2015
Tell them that there a really great person but our friendship
means more to me then just a hook up
1 Comments, 61 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Saying No 1/6/2015
How would you go about saying no thanks to someone who is
incredibly persistent yet sweet at the same time?
10 Comments, 105 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score
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Too much 12/26/2014
Saying no just got to be too much now we just ignore profiles
that we're not interested in.
4 Comments, 71 Views,
13 Votes
,4.15 Score
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Being Polite 12/23/2014
I wish that people on this site would try a little to be polite.
If somebody sends you a message and you are not interested
in them; just respond back and say that you appreciate their
interest in you, but you are not interested.
I do not think it is very nice to just ignore their message.
Think of it like this: they found you attractive enough
to take the time to send a message, you ...
13 Comments, 108 Views,
25 Votes
,2.69 Score
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CAN YOU CHANGE YOUR DIRTY SEX MIND? 12/23/2014
A couple of years ago I was really into nipples. Human nipples
in particular (you wanted to take it there). I loved the
way my partner’s nips felt up against my skin, and the
way mine felt against their man-chest and lips. I loved
the sensation and the eroticism of the little weird evolutionary
phenomenon. I think my curiosity turned into a playful
exploration of all the cool things you could ...
7 Comments, 119 Views,
22 Votes
,4.93 Score
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Ignoring people if not interested or politely declining 12/23/2014
What is the outlook on this? Do people prefer to hear back
even if it is not the response they would like to hear or will
being ignored also do the job. Also if you have to deal with unwanted attention do you prefer
to let them know or simply ignore it and the potential backlash
of a "sore loser" along with it?
5 Comments, 43 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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