I'm a live sound engineer and love my work but I've missed out on a lot of things through being away. Bored and lonely, fingers have been very badly burned in the past but I'm finally getting the confidence to try again. I've been told I'm too generous and people take advantage so if you can be patient enough to get past my trust issues I'll do anything to make you happy. Of course I'm up for fun too but hope to get a relationship out of it eventually. I tend to look after other people and put them before my own needs. I also do a lot of volunteering for charity running benefit concerts and spending every Xmas at homeless shelters as well as outreach work through the year. I love reading, travel, cooking, my work, learning, science, movies and theatre. My work is the biggest part of my life closely followed by my family and my cat as I'm very much a cat person. I've only had a handful of relationships in my life, most of which ended badly with me being taken advantage of which is why it takes a lot for me to really trust someone and let them see the real me. I'd actually given up after the last one but realise now I'm not ok on my own and miss having someone I can care for as well as the physical side. I'll just say it's been so long I think my virginity has grown back.

My Ideal Person I'm very young at heart so prefer younger women and I like them short. I don't think looks are important and tend to go for quirky looks. Page 3 glamour types do absolutely nothing for me.