I must be discreet, totally in public. I am a conservative lady in public. I love the spark of knowing I am also always available to the guy I am with and at any moment, he could choose for us to go private. I will wear clothing easily removed, sometimes low-cut or easily reaching into from above or below, and I will wear sexy undergarments, or none if he so chooses. I always am conscious of sex and desiring the man I’m with. My real turn on, is that I love to cum. I always do, and I usually cum multiple times in multiple ways (internal, clitoral, with multiple places that cause me to become dripping wet), including squirt/gush. Single (I am submissive) and open to experiences. I havent met the man of my dreams yet, so I'm enjoying in the meantime. I am 5'9", have a belly, chunky thighs and ass (continue to lose a bit of weight), mature with average C/D cup tits (saggy) with sensitive protruding nipples and a fat juicy pussy. I want to enjoy intense adventurous sex, and learn to enjoy all kinds of things, some bdsm ... I love being 'forced' to endure past the difficult part to the amazing pleasure. I'm motivated by cumming, my pussy dripping, love to be able to deal with more and more. I want to try (almost) all you've imagined. I love for the man to experience everything he desires; no holding back... let loose. It's my turn on; to take it (or, at times, to give it) as he wishes (or as I think best for him and to fulfill my own thoughts of the moment). I want to meet 'the one'. My nature is totally monogamous and I wish I was able to spend enough time with one man to again be monogamous. We could then add others if he so chose, but only as a couple. Thats my eventual ‘goal’.) So, for now, condoms still required. If I am participating: Safe sex only (meaning prove in writing from extensive medical testing you are DDF or use condoms for penetration of vagina or ass & I won't swallow any dripping). Known absolute limits: No actual damage, no one , no piercing of the skin, no blood (no cuts, fissures, care taken including lubes used as needed), nothing broken, anyone participating must be freshly showered and groin shaved/well trimmed, anyone doing any activity (with/to myself or others) must be educated on possible dangers and knowledgeable of how it should be done safely (no harm, hurt with careful intention aok), I am not bi (meaning I will not kiss, go down on, or touch in a sexual manner, any woman) so please do not expect me to or pressure me to in any way - and I don't want to feel I could hurt feelings or snub some woman; otoh, who knows?, no scat (mine or others - I don't want to touch or smell or clean up) and I don't rim, tongue fuck ass or finger but - I do enjoy playing with a man's ass, using toys I have or provided, milk prostate and fuck men's ass with dildo in hand (I have special ones) or sometimes with strap on - all part of switching for me, I don't drink pee, I don't ingest anything (except cum of DDF men), by choice or if forced as part of a session/scene), and I don't do photos or videos that can possibly show who I am or any part of my home or any possession or originals plus all copies (meaning original is saved to only one piece of media which is mine - and may/may not be shared back) are mine (I will check, possibly alter, and share. If you provide a toy that I am to know how to use, I get to keep it (presumed a gift). Anything used on me is new, and mine to keep (except men; haven't met the keeper yet). I am primarily submissive in nature, and behind closed doors very willing to be yours to enjoy and play with. I will swallow DDF men, deep throat, be face/skull fucked, offer all holes, and I will if desired by both of us, switch to play with men as Domme (and take control), get spanked and give spanking if i switch (with any/all imagined 'tools', play with all kinds of toys (both ways), bondage (except not w/painful joints), play with multiple partners (have done up to 12, one at a time and 2 at one time), dress as you desire once private (or at a private club, etc), accept any talk, generally accept/do/handle most perceived 'abuse', must respect safe word.

My Ideal Person For ongoing, I prefer to be attached to a guy who allows me some privacy, I'm not looking to live with anyone,; not yet (I don't think?). I'm serious about relationship if I do get into one, it matters a lot - I intend for life. He should be a great family man (enjoy his kids if he has any) and good person, financially stable, fun, enjoy music, good food, good life, have kids he loves, etc. He should enjoy sex totally, be open about discussing it, be adventurous and wanting to explore together. I'm open minded on personal relationship, but like the man in charge at my core, as I am submissive by nature, yet have found I can 'switch' that and I'm naturally a responsible person. I must have totally open sharing of everything with each other (total disclosure) and mutual respect, loyalty, and honest. On the other hand, I've learned I also enjoy being in charge, but I'm not sure if I could be the one in control most of the time or not. I think I'm still discovering myself. I definitely need a guy who is very intelligent. I need to and will respect him, love to be supportive and make him stand taller, be bigger and better because there is an "us".

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having a guy totally get into watching other men have sex
with me, knowing that my mind is *only* on him, and I *only*
want him ... knowing that every single man fucking me feels
like it is him. Then he makes love to me over and over and its
all just perfect. Something along those lines - it doesn't
need to literally be other guys, it could be him... stimulating
me in different ways. Yummy man :)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Food Play, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
A celebrity, really? No, my fantasies are about men I know,
men I see everyday!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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